We all carry distinct psychological baggage, shaped by our upbringing, cultural influences, personal beliefs, and past experiences. These elements intertwine to create a tapestry of thoughts and emotions, influencing our instantaneous and often unconscious reactions; 'Wow, that's mind-blowing!' or 'A child could have painted that!'
Our brains have a knack for rapidly forming judgments such as 'that's cool or 'that sucks', with little thought or contemplation. It's a fascinating interplay between our personal histories and the way our minds process information. But are we missing out?
Well, yes, we are! The proverb, 'Remember to stop and smell the roses' encourages us to take a beat, ponder, think a little, and be in the moment. So, how can we be less judgy and more open?
- Cultivate a Sense of Curiosity: Question your initial reactions, because who knows, that painting you dismissed as 'a bunch of random scribbles' might just hold the key to a creative revelation. Or, it may just be a bunch of scribbles. Life is full of surprises, and being open to different perspectives can help us navigate this crazy world we live in.
- Engage in Conversation: A quiet chat or lively debate can be enlightening, especially over a glass of wine. We can learn from each other if we are open to ideas and still on the first bottle π. Sharing and discussing our interpretations with our art mates can offer new insights and challenge preconceived notions. Each person brings their own unique perspective, and by embracing these diverse viewpoints, we expand our understanding and appreciation of art.
- Step out of your Comfort Zone: We tend to stick with what we like and what's familiar - it's like a cosy blanket. This is a great idea when you don't want to grow anymore π€. But, if you do, trying on something new can spark a cacophony of thoughts and feelings. You may feel excited or enraged by what you see and feel. And that's ok. With time, you may find your mind changing, beliefs evolving, and a newfound appreciation for something once dismissed.
By embracing or even contemplating, the wacky, the weird, and the wonderful, we become more interesting human beings and gain lots more dinner invitations.